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Post by Board Admin on Sept 30, 2011 11:30:46 GMT -5
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Question of the Week
"I'm dating a guy and him and best friend have become close to the point where it makes me uncomfortable. Sometimes they even hang out when I'm, not there. Am I over reacting? Or is this something that I should just overlook?"
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Post by ghostwriter on Oct 1, 2011 11:36:36 GMT -5
you shouldn't overlook because it is a little weird for them to hang out on their own. But would you rather your friend hate your partner, that would be even more stressful.
With this situation just take a step back and look and if it seems to be weird or make you more uneasy then you should consider stepphing in and voicing this to one of them. Just make sure you put it in a way that gets your point across and doesn't have you looking like the "jealous third wheel"
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Post by empresssteph on Oct 1, 2011 12:16:35 GMT -5
Please say something to them both explaining how you feel... You have to find a good approach because they will be defensive.. Glad that they are able to get along but if they weren't friends b4 your relationship then that's a problem for me. With all that time spending then an attraction may start. Which will lead to major problems
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Post by Anony Mous on Oct 2, 2011 6:22:56 GMT -5
They hang out without you? If those aren't plans discussed with you, then you definitely need to sit them down and have a talk. I don't even understand how they got to this point if they were not cool before you dated. I personally feel that it's suspicious but I would try to talk it out first before assuming.
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Post by stockyrocky on Oct 4, 2011 12:15:53 GMT -5
You wouldnt be overreacting and this shouldnt be over looked... communication is backbone of all relationships... speaking on it and expressing your disdain with it both parties is an order. the less you speak on it the more they are going to feel its okay to do...
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Post by JuicyJ on Oct 10, 2011 13:51:04 GMT -5
Def say something to both parties.... Don't ever let a situations that are uncomfortable slide in a relationship or even friendship. They tend to brew into big annoyances later on...
Best of luck.
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