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Post by Board Admin on Oct 1, 2011 15:23:47 GMT -5
Respond to what He and She had to say and also leave your own feedback on the topic...
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Post by empresssteph on Oct 1, 2011 16:28:14 GMT -5
I'm 33 and I don't have any kids it's shocking to men & some family members. I too would likento be married b4 I have kids. Things happen but this day and age I'm not taking any chances. As far as dating a man with kids i have no issues w/ that especially if he's a good father to his offsprings. Ive had my share of "baby mama drama" but I had to ignore the bs..eventually she got the point and backed off. Just have to choose wisely
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Post by Anony Mous on Oct 2, 2011 6:25:45 GMT -5
I will NEVER date a man with children, EVER! I don't care what any of them say, it is automatic drama and I do not have the time to deal with that. That is my FINAL answer!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by TRay on Oct 2, 2011 14:30:35 GMT -5
I am married to a man with 2children other than the one we share and it's not necessarily a negative thing. I feel that some ppl pass up what could be the best relationship they've ever experienced simply because of the "K" word..kids. My husband was very honest with me about his children and the situations surrounding them from the beginning and I respected that. Then after seeing how involved he was with his children and how in control of the situation he was, I respected him more for being a good man/father. Of course it sounds cliche but it is very true..."It could always be worse". Instead of having children, he could be abusive, controlling, selfish, have no job, be cheating, on drugs, like to party all the time, not come home @night, come home spelling like booze and perfume, etc etc etc. Needless to say there are wonderful men with no children, but the pickings are slim. And no I don't call it settling. I have a husband that respects me, loves me, caters2me, shows affection, works his behind off, is a great father to our child, and I wouldn't trade that in for anything in the world. Is there drama? Sometimes, yea. Are there financial strains? Absolutely. Every1has a right to their preference and I don't take that away from any1. But @the end of the day, I love and support the man I picked, and the children are only part of that man.
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Post by Hates His Ex on Oct 3, 2011 15:36:31 GMT -5
Dating sum1 with kids is not the end of the world. I'm dating sum1 with kids and have my own kids as well and it works. Relationships just require HONESTY from the jump and if you aint got that, u aint got shiiiittt.
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Post by JuicyJ on Oct 10, 2011 13:47:26 GMT -5
I have done it before but I doubt that I will do it again. First of all, when I was with the guy, he wasn't honest bout havin a child to begin with... which I thought was kinda lame. I found out when I went to his house after we had been dating for about a month or two, an seen pics of the child an his mother in the house. I was very disturbed an needless to say broke it off. If you can lie about that you can lie about anythin. No thank you.
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